Sunday 2 January 2011

Think About 'Me' not 'We'

One way to save your marriage is to think about the pair of you as individuals.

If you always consider yourself as a couple then you are not addressing your own personal fulfilment as individuals. Everyone knows that two contended people are far more likely to make a happy couple than two unhappy individuals.

This blog is designed to get you thinking about the positive steps you can take to get your mariage back on track. Sometimes you need help and advice, other times you need to take a completely fresh approach.

Find The New You

Refocus your efforts initially on finding your own personal happiness; look at activities that help to keep you confident, calm, happy or challenged. Seek out new opportunities or old friends. Look for adventure or relaxation. Identify what would add to your day to day happiness and make an effort to reintroduce it into your life.

This might seem selfish but it may just be a tactic that helps you to approach your marriage in a totally different way. Read future posts for more tips.

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